Ko je i zašto kreirao i plasirao koncept rodne neutralnosti? Da li to psihologija vidi dalje u budućnost nego što je običan zdrav razum u stanju? Ili psihološki momenat služi samo da zamaskira neku drugu ideju? Ili se stvari uvek tako spajaju i usklađuju? Pojavi se neka nova glupost, postane moderna i industrija prepozna potencijal i uskoči – i zaradi pare. Ali, da vidimo, šta je inicijalna ideja rodne neutralnosti, odnosno, zašto oni koji se zalažu za nju misle da je to dobro. U patrijarhalnom društvu deca se vaspitavaju seksistički, od rođenja. Od roze i plavih štramplica, preko lutaka za devojčice i vozića i autića za dečake, ka ideji da su muškarci jaki, odlučni i hrabri (ne plaču), a žene nežne, kolibljive, emotivne i tople (plaču). Ali zdrav razum kaže da to nije zdravo, jer onda imamo frustrirane muškarce koji pokušavaju po svaku cenu da dokažu svoju muževnost i duboko potiskuju emocije koje smatraju nedopustivom slabošću, od čega stradaju ne samo partnerski odnosi, nego i mentalno i fizičko zdravlje muškaraca. I imamo žene koje su promašile svoje živote i ostale neispunjene, besne i nesrećne, jer im muškarci nisu pružili ono što im treba, jer nisu iskazale svoje sposobnosti na profesionalnom planu i nisu se pronašle u ulozi majke, supruge i domaćice. Svako treba da raspolaže svojim punim mentalnim, emotivnim i fizičkim kapacitetom i da bude obodren da pronađe sebe u stvarima koje ga zanimaju, koje mu dobro idu, za koje pokazuje talenat, spretnost, sklonost… I to i dalje nije ništa više nego zdrav razum.
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"Nic and I met 8 years ago at the University of Georgia but we both worked for the Athletic Association and dating wasn't allowed. I was also dating someone else at the time, so our relationship was nothing more than casual conversation from time to time. Fast forward 6 years later, I was single when Nic sent me a perfectly timed message asking if I ever wanted to grab a drink and catch up. So on our first date we went for drinks and played some bar games. The night ended with him losing a bet which meant he owed me a home cooked meal. That home-cooked meal happened on date number 2 and ended up turning into four amazing days STUCK at my house together because of the massive snow storm that hit Atlanta in January of 2014. Not many people in Atlanta know how to drive in the snow and the city as a whole isn't prepared for it. I don't know a single person who knows how to control a car on an iced over road. Normally it would take me about one hour to drive home from work, but that evening it took me five hours after a lot of slipping and sliding. Nic had to stay at work late for a meeting, but had planned to come over after. He started his drive at 5PM and at 2AM he still hadn't arrived, even though his drive should have only taken him about twenty minutes. The entire city of Atlanta was gridlocked. There were over 30 accidents that evening, some involving more than 60 cars. Many people even slept in their cars throughout the night. Finally, my roommate agreed to take his big truck and drive it on the wrong side of the road all the way to where Nic left his car and started walking. By 3AM, we were finally all back at my place and home safe. What was supposed to be one home cooked meal turned into breakfast, lunch, and dinner together for the next four days. No one could leave the house, the city was completely shut down. However, if it wasn't for the Snowpocalypse that hit Atlanta, Nic and I may have never spent those four days together falling in love. We are now married, and life is wonderful."